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Trapped In a New Situation
I should feel guilty for writing down these thoughts, and I do. But at the same time I feel like I'm going to pop. My wife and I decided to move to another part of the country where she just about found a new job immediately. I stayed behind to look for a new job and take care of business. I had no luck finding a job, so I resigned and came out here just before our 2-month old son was born. I love this city, but I have yet to find a job. We are ok financially, but still I miss working very badly. She already made a bunch of new friends through her job, but I have made none since I have been home almost constantly due to weather and helping her with our son. Now, she is going to work soon, what's worse, she works nights. So, when I eventually find a job, I have to work all day, come home and watch our baby. Her weekends fall on Wednesday and Thursday which of course are "work nights" for me.
The bottom line is I feel trapped. I love my son and my wife more than anything in the world, but I feel trapped. No opportunity to make friends. No opportunity to enjoy the new city. Just work and babysit. What do I do? How do I change myself?
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